Liz Behling Pancreatic Cancer Survivor

Back in the Driver’s Seat: Liz Behling’s Story of Strength, Survival & Starting Over After Pancreatic Cancer

When Liz Behling’s doctors diagnosed her with pancreatic cancer a little over two years ago, they eventually approved her for surgery to remove what they believed was a resectable pancreatic tumor. Yet, midway through the procedure, vein and arterial involvement forced the surgeon to abort the operation, telling Liz and her husband, Phil, that there was nothing else the hospital could do. Refusing to accept this, Liz and her husband pursued second and third opinions, and the pair eventually found a care team willing to fight alongside them. Today, Liz does more than just “get by” – she’s also reclaiming pieces of a life she thought she’d lost, recently sliding behind the wheel of a car for the first time in two years in an effort that proves that she’s not just recovering, but reclaiming her freedom and independence, too.

I didn’t know anybody who had pancreatic cancer – I had no frame of reference.

Liz, who lives outside of Milwaukee, Wisconsin, developed intense abdominal pain in late 2022 and initially suspected a stomach bug. When her pain persisted and she started dropping weight rapidly without trying, she knew something was amiss and saw her internist to discuss her symptoms.

The internist recommended Liz undergo a CT scan, leading to the discovery of a pancreatic tumor. She met with an oncologist at her local hospital, who started her on chemotherapy using FOLFIRINOX, a combination of cancer drugs. She responded to the chemo at first, but the longer it went on, the more she struggled with side effects, including exhaustion, neuropathy, hair loss and extreme nausea.

“I sat there for every treatment just watching my wife wilt,” said Phil, of his wife’s struggles with chemotherapy. “She was wiped out – it was a tough experience for everyone.”

While the side effects were undeniably rough, the chemo worked as intended, reducing the size of Liz’s tumor substantially. She followed it with targeted radiation, finding radiation to be much more manageable than chemotherapy. After wrapping up radiation, she took a month-long break to build strength after her care team determined her tumor had shrunk enough to become operable.

I think we take our lives for granted - We don’t always realize that the plan is not in our hands. You can’t lose hope that you’re going to survive.

Navigating Setbacks & Seeking Answers

The hospital scheduled Liz for surgery in November 2023, and partway through the procedure, her husband received a text message.

“The doctor is coming to see you in the waiting room,” the text message said, without providing any additional details. Phil awaited the doctor’s arrival anxiously, not knowing for sure if his wife was alive or dead. When the surgeon finally made his way out, he had sobering news.

“The vascular complications were too great,” he said. “We had to abort the procedure.”

Devastated, Liz and Phil went home, and they later returned to the hospital for a follow-up and staple removal. At this point, the nurse who cared for Liz told the pair there was nothing else they could do for Liz and sent her on her way.

Recognizing the value of a second opinion, Liz and Phil sought one from the Mayo Clinic Comprehensive Cancer Center, one of the United States’ preeminent cancer care facilities. After about five weeks, Mayo got back to them, concurring with the first hospital and acknowledging that the placement of Liz’s tumor made surgery too risky.

Liz and Phil decided it was time to seek a third medical opinion, and they did so at Froedtert & The Medical College of Wisconsin, located relatively close to their metro-Milwaukee home. There, they met with Dr. Alexandria T. Phan, an oncologist, and Dr. Doug Evans, a pancreatic cancer specialist and surgeon, who reviewed Liz’s case before taking it before the hospital’s tumor board. After a thorough review, Dr. Evans returned with the words Liz and Phil had long awaited.

“Yes; absolutely,” the doctor said, of performing a complete removal of Liz’s pancreas, spleen and gallbladder. “We think we can do this.”

We’ve just been taking it slowly and doing as much as I can tolerate at the beginning.

Resuming Treatment & Reclaiming Strength

While Liz and Phil were thrilled to find someone who saw hope in Liz’s future, the fact that Liz had halted chemo about six months prior led the team at Froedtert to recommend she restart it. She switched to different chemo drugs, finding the new combination of Abraxane and Gemzar to be easier to manage. She still experienced hair loss and exhaustion, but the nausea was less severe, giving Liz some relief.

After about three more months of chemo, Liz underwent surgery May 10, 2024. The procedure, expected to take about eight hours, wound up taking more like 10.5, with Dr. Evans noting that Liz’s vascular issues were particularly complex. This time around, though, Phil didn’t get vague, anxiety-inducing text messages in the waiting room – instead, he received updates in real time from one of the nurses in the operating room, which he says was much more reassuring.

After about eight days of recovery in the hospital, Liz returned home, where she, like many people who have surgery for pancreatic cancer, had to learn to manage the Type 1 diabetes she developed as a result of the procedure. While, overall, she recovered relatively well (“I have a high threshold for pain!” she noted), learning to manage diabetes proved more problematic, with Liz calling it the most difficult part of her recovery.

Getting Back in the Driver’s Seat

Now, a year out from surgery, Liz finds herself in a good place and has largely learned to manage life as a diabetic. While she had some existing knowledge of the condition due to her father’s status as a Type 2 diabetic, she found that her own experience was much different. She did, however, see a diabetes educator at Froedtert, which she found very helpful. She also switched from taking injections to using an insulin pump and found the latter much easier to manage.

While she continues to learn more about life with diabetes, Liz is also increasing her level of physical activity. About five months after her surgery, she began exercising, practicing yoga and taking short walks that she gradually increased in length over time.

“We’ve just been taking it slowly and doing as much as I can tolerate at the beginning,” Liz said. Now, she walks as much as three or four miles a day in an effort to build back endurance and muscle mass after losing more than 100 pounds during treatment.

Liz has also become more involved in the pancreatic cancer community since her diagnosis, attending the Seena Magowitz Foundation’s 2024 “Power of Us” fundraiser in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, alongside more than 80 people living with pancreatic cancer. Up until that point, Liz had virtually no knowledge of the condition but found that being around others, many of whom had 10, 20 and even 30 years of survivorship under their belts, gave her a renewed sense of hope and purpose.

“I didn’t know anybody who had pancreatic cancer – I had no frame of reference,” Liz said.

“It was so reassuring to meet all those people who are survivors,” her husband, Phil, added.

While connecting with fellow survivors gave Liz a deeper sense of community, she is also quick to credit her husband with being present at every appointment – and being a huge part of her support system. Her two adult sons also played key roles in enhancing her recovery, with Liz noting that the elder son, a Catholic priest, had people all over the world praying for her. Liz also underwent genetic testing to see if her sons had any predispositions to cancer they should know about, but the test didn’t reveal any clear genetic links.

Liz’s family and loved ones also offered practical help and support throughout her treatment and recovery by supplying meals and keeping the freezer stocked with ready-to-go dishes she and Phil could pull out when needed.

Liz also stresses how wonderful her care team at Froedtert was, applauding not just Dr. Phan and Dr. Evans, but everyone else on staff, from the endocrinologists and diabetes specialists to the nurses and other medical professionals. She found that their “bedside manner” was markedly different than some of the others she’d dealt with along the way, remarking that, unlike some physicians who specialize in pancreatic cancer care, they didn’t use overly complicated terminology the average patient would struggle to understand.

She’s also found that the entirety of her cancer experience shifted her overall perspective, leading her to adopt a more positive attitude, which she believes is an active, intentional choice.

“You have to believe you’re going to get better – attitude is everything when you go through an experience like this. Of course there will be setbacks, but you have to believe you’re going to get better,” Liz said. “I think we take our lives for granted – We don’t always realize that the plan is not in our hands. You can’t lose hope that you’re going to survive. We’ve also adopted the word “believe” as our mantra – so, every setback we have, we believe we’re going to get better.”

This belief continues to carry Liz through each day as she builds back strength and continues to reclaim aspects of her old life. While getting back behind the wheel after a two-year hiatus was about regaining independence, it was also about forward motion – and proving that, even after everything she faced, she remains in control of where her road leads next.